This past week has been quite interesting to me. I've discovered something new about myself. I'm beginning to fall in
You know how they say opposites attract, well described that saying to the letter. He LOVES the outdoors and farming and I'm happy that he does as long as I don't have get dirty. He loves the summer (because he gets to "play" in the dirt) and the yucky heat it brings and I would be content living in the North Pole! I know, it's strange hearing a black girl from the beautiful island of Trinidad profess her love for winter. But summers to me, particularly icky, sticky, humid Canadian summers are just inhumane. I avoided going outside unless I really had to. Until last Monday. Monday everything changed.
We moved into our home about a year and a half ago. Prior to that, I would drive by the house every day for 3 and a half years and admire it. The previous owners of the house took such care and pride it the landscaping. The grass was always a healthy green and cut to the perfect length. The 3 gardens were always nicely kept without any weeds in them. That was until we moved it. Hubby is much too busy with the farm to take care the gardens and I'm horticulturally challenged! Brown thumbs, remember?
In my defense and not having any experience with gardening whatsoever, shortly after we moved into our home, we welcomed our baby boy and as far as I was concerned, he was my number one priority. So the gardens moved to the very bottom of my list. Actually it didn't make the cut. This year, however, it began to bug me. Really, really bug me. The weeds had basically overtaken the gardens and aside from the fresh cut grass and the cars outside the house, you'd think that the place was abandoned. So I ventured outside at 1:15pm while my little man was asleep and began pulling at the weeds. I just kept going at it until finally they were in a huge pile on the ground behind me. I stood up and took a deep breath. It felt good. Really good. I walked over to the second garden and started at that one too. But then I saw a half dozen bees and backed off cause getting 1 bee angry at you is hard enough. Getting 6 bees angry is a trip to the emergency room.
As I looked at what I had done, and the feeling of complete and utter joy and satisfaction my mind slipped back to January 1, 2011. Me gardening. Maybe this was some of the change I felt was going to occur this year. Sure it's not that big of a deal for some people who have been doing this for years. But for me, it was huge. In some way I've felt my new found like for this new hobby, has brought my husband & I closer than before. I feel like I'm now beginning to truly fully understand that part of him. That love for planting, cultivating and harvesting. It's awesome!
I no longer hide inside during the hot summer days. I'll instead have fun outside playing in the dirt. What a change!